Parks and more…

Exercise was going really well awhile back, but then I got that one upper respiratory thing that was really bad. You know, cough, trouble breathing through the crud, lasted about six weeks. So I’ve been working myself up to get into regular exercise again. I would love to have a fit bit, but I’m not sure I can justify the cost. I like the fit bit best for the simple fact that it counts stair steps… since we live on a big hill in a 3-story house, seeing those numbers go up would be encouraging. We’ll see.

One thing that makes me smile is to do fun things with the family outside in the sunshine at the drop of the hat. No pre-planning… just up and go do something that isn’t work. Going to a park. Going for a walk. Eating at a restaurant. Those things allow me to drop stress and get back into being a relational mom instead of just the taskmaster.

Another park day! This time as a family. I sure love sunny weekends.

Another park day! This time as a family. I sure love sunny weekends.

It was a beautiful spot with big flat rocks so we could go out and look at the rapids.

It was a beautiful spot with big flat rocks so we could go out and look at the rapids.

The rapids made us very nervous with the kids. But Brian held Carolyn's hand and I held Jordan's. But it still made us nervous. It was loud and wild and beautiful.

The rapids made us very nervous with the kids. But Brian held Carolyn’s hand and I held Jordan’s. But it still made us nervous. It was loud and wild and beautiful.

Brian is hiding his fear well.

Brian is hiding his fear well.

We also tromped around a short trail.

We also tromped around a short trail.

It's beautiful in the Northwest in the spring.

It’s beautiful in the Northwest in the spring.

I look so.... grown up and all.

I look so…. grown up and all.

Anna and I treated our long-hair selves to a haircut at an actual salon. She got her hair bobbed and my hair was cut... umm... just shortish. I like it.

Anna and I treated our long-hair selves to a haircut at an actual salon. She got her hair bobbed and my hair was cut… umm… just shortish. I like it.

Big girl.

Big girl.

A night at the Keller Auditorium, compliments of my brother to see a sold out show of The Newsies!

A night at the Keller Auditorium, compliments of my brother to see a sold out show of The Newsies!

We got all dressed up and went out to dinner afterwards.

We got all dressed up and went out to dinner afterwards.

These two did awesome... newborn baby and all!

These two did awesome… newborn baby and all!

So.... Jordan likes to throw things at people and hit them. He doesn't mean to hurt (I don't think) but does mean to get a reaction. Typical little boy business. Anyway... he should not be allowed to swing the end of vacuum cords around. He hit Maggie in the eye and she had quite the shiner for a week.

So…. Jordan likes to throw things at people and hit them. He doesn’t mean to hurt (I don’t think) but does mean to get a reaction. Typical little boy business. Anyway… he should not be allowed to swing the end of vacuum cords around. He hit Maggie in the eye and she had quite the shiner for a week.

We got to go on a tour at Brian's work (Bonneville Power) on take your kids to work day. This was the chemistry room. We saw everything from how they test the strength of ropes/wires, from small electricity to big electricity... to a man-made lightning bolt! It was pretty incredible.

We got to go on a tour at Brian’s work (Bonneville Power) on take your kids to work day. This was the chemistry room. We saw everything from how they test the strength of ropes/wires, from small electricity to big electricity… to a man-made lightning bolt! It was pretty incredible.

This reaction went FAST due to the addition of a reagent. They call it elephant toothpaste and it kept spewing out for quite a while!

This reaction went FAST due to the addition of a reagent. They call it elephant toothpaste and it kept spewing out for quite a while!

We've been gardening!

We’ve been gardening!

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April 2016

Let’s see….. here are some photos from April of this year!

Jordan at the Shriner's Orthopedist where we learned he has hip displaysia. MRI is this Thursday.

Jordan at the Shriner’s Orthopedist where we learned he has hip displaysia. MRI is this Thursday.

Where the girls are now taking classes on Wenesdays!

Where the girls are now taking classes once a week!

Anna and Maggie are taking elective classes once a week at a local program. We just started and I think we’ll keep it up next year. Anna’s taking art, American Girl history, a nature class and lego physics! Maggie is taking piano, art, gardening and legos. Twice now, I have been able to just drop them off and go next door and volunteer in Jordan’s classroom. I love volunteering in there!

This is the OHSU CDRC "gym" in Portland. Jordan was here for a wheelchair appointment. He still benefits from being in a stroller at times (so he doesn't run into traffic, helps him go with us even when he's tired, keeps him safe, etc.) . Anyway, we haven't heard yet if the wheelchair will be covered by insurance, but if it is, we'll be getting one! I'm excited! (Large stroller-wheelchairs are expensive!)

This is the OHSU CDRC “gym” in Portland. Jordan was here for a wheelchair appointment. He still benefits from being in a stroller at times (so he doesn’t run into traffic, helps him go with us even when he’s tired, keeps him safe, etc.) . Anyway, we haven’t heard yet if the wheelchair will be covered by insurance, but if it is, we’ll be getting one! I’m excited! (Large stroller-wheelchairs are expensive!)

I love what my kids get up to when they do things on their own.

I love what my kids get up to when they do things on their own.

I consider this my most successful day in the entire year of homeschooling. There were no books. We went to the park, went on a 3-mile hike and practiced good attitudes, kind behavior, learned about how rocks turn smoother in the water, identified plants and generally had a good day.

I consider this my most successful day in the entire year of homeschooling. There were no books. We went to the park, went on a 3-mile hike and practiced good attitudes, kind behavior, learned about how rocks turn smoother in the water, identified plants and generally had a good day.

Anna took things a step further and made rubbings of many kinds of leaves.

Anna took things a step further and made rubbings of many kinds of leaves.

These goofballs have sticks on their heads that are like antlers.

These goofballs have sticks on their heads that are like antlers.

Goofy goofballs.

Goofy goofballs.

We took the meandering, climb on the rocks version of the hike.

We took the meandering, climb on the rocks version of the hike.

And sat on all the benches. And played in the creek.

And sat on all the benches. And played in the creek.

Back home.... this is what happens wherever there are heater vents on chilly mornings.

Back home…. this is what happens wherever there are heater vents on chilly mornings.

Oh.my.goodness.gracious. Maggie cracks me up! Maggie came downstairs shivering.... went to the living room and changed into her Princess Anna dress, then went and sat on the heater vent and went INSIDE the dress where it was warm. LOL

Oh.my.goodness.gracious. Maggie cracks me up! Maggie came downstairs shivering…. went to the living room and changed into her Princess Anna dress, then went and sat on the heater vent and went INSIDE the dress where it was warm. LOL

Random guinea pig picture. Or as Brian calls them, furry, squeaking potatoes.

Random guinea pig picture. Or as Brian calls them, furry, squeaking potatoes.

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More from March

I often go through day to day thinking of how much is not getting done. I see the messes on the floor, the tall grass in the yard, the unfinished projects and the chores I need to do. I’m glad I’ve taken some pictures, though. Because they show me a different story. They show me the highlights, the successes and the things I want to treasure. Here’s a stack of those pictures from March.

One of the reasons I love having a family goal (To care for orphans) is that when I am feeling the pressure from too many things too do, too many opportunities to decide between, I can use the main family goal to help me prioritize. The lawn being gorgeous is not a high priority. Keeping the kids in a bunch of programs is not a high priority. I don’t know… but it helps.

Our giant dog, Ruby, is not much of a handful. Unless you count her shedding.

Our giant dog, Ruby, is not much of a handful. Unless you count her shedding.

When Brian works from home, he makes really good use of his fifteen minute breaks. He is master of the power nap.

When Brian works from home, he makes really good use of his fifteen minute breaks. He is master of the power nap.

There are so many things I love about this picture...

There are so many things I love about this picture…


My mom and dad together. My daughter snuggled up with my dad. All of us at a Heart Change workshop Sunday morning supporting my Mom. <3

Anna's swimming lessons - she got quite good and is able to swim on her own in the water.

Anna’s swimming lessons – she got quite good and is able to swim on her own in the water.

Maggie in her swimming lessons! She swam without a floatie in deep water for the first time in this class. She can swim without help from one place to another, so long as they aren't too far apart.

Maggie in her swimming lessons! She swam without a floatie in deep water for the first time in this class. She can swim without help from one place to another, so long as they aren’t too far apart.


Sadly, I don’t have a great video of Maggie’s lesson.

Carolyn was just adorable in the little kid class. She was very hesitant at the beginning, but by the end, she trusted her teacher to help her float on her back (ears in the water!) and jumped into her arms (even letting her head dunk under the water sometimes!). The teacher was kind and predictable... exactly what she needed.

Carolyn was just adorable in the little kid class. She was very hesitant at the beginning, but by the end, she trusted her teacher to help her float on her back (ears in the water!) and jumped into her arms (even letting her head dunk under the water sometimes!). The teacher was kind and predictable… exactly what she needed.

What school often looks like at our house. This is Maggie playing a speed math game, I think.

What school often looks like at our house. This is Maggie playing a speed math game, I think.

I love it when Jordan shows an interest in the dogs beyond their tails. He doesn't often, which is why I took this picture!

I love it when Jordan shows an interest in the dogs beyond their tails. He doesn’t often, which is why I took this picture!

Oh my gorgeous girls and their beautiful baby cousin!

Oh my gorgeous girls and their beautiful baby cousin!

Ohhhhhhh, my heart.

Ohhhhhhh, my heart.

My heart!

My heart!

Here's my mommy holding my sister's littlest bundle.

Here’s my mommy holding my sister’s littlest bundle.

They were doing ballet or gymnastics "class." I don't remember.

They were doing ballet or gymnastics “class.” I don’t remember.

Joanna, my favorite therapy friend and Jordan's OT. She is convincing Jordan that he really can touch food and put it in his mouth and eat things he's not comfortable with.

Joanna, my favorite therapy friend and Jordan’s OT. She is convincing Jordan that he really can touch food and put it in his mouth and eat things he’s not comfortable with.

Go Jordan! Yeah!

Go Jordan! Yeah!

We were both chuckling after the plate licking.

We were both chuckling after the plate licking.

Hanging out in the indoor playground while the other girls are swimming. Usually, Jordan was not with me, but when he was, he did really well at the noisy indoor playground!  For him, that means he played appropriately some of the time, avoided screaming or inappropriate behavior most of the time, and lasted quite a long time before becoming overstimulated. It was exhausting, but it was successful.

Hanging out in the indoor playground while the other girls are swimming. Usually, Jordan was not with me, but when he was, he did really well at the noisy indoor playground! For him, that means he played appropriately some of the time, avoided screaming or inappropriate behavior most of the time, and lasted quite a long time before becoming overstimulated. It was exhausting, but it was successful.

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Kittens and Birthdays

We went through the training to be able to foster cats with kittens from the Humane Society. (They can’t adopt out kittens until they’re old enough to be spayed/neutered.) Our first kitty was a super sweet mama, friendly and calm and good with her kittens. We only got to keep them a few weeks, though, because one of the kittens was getting pushed off and wasn’t growing. She needed somebody to sit with her and help her nurse multiple times a day and I couldn’t do it. Thankfully, somebody else from the foster group was able to take them in and help. All the kittens were just starting to move around and be playful when they moved, so I’m looking forward to taking in another batch of kittens sometime this summer.

This is our newborn kitten cave in the giant master bathtub with Maggie sitting beside it.

This is our newborn kitten cave in the giant master bathtub with Maggie sitting beside it.

Here is the first batch of kittens we've fostered and their sweet mama.

Here is the first batch of kittens we’ve fostered and their sweet mama.

Carolyn is very good with animals, despite being only 3 years old. I think it's her more deliberate and predictable behavior. She was adorable.

Carolyn is very good with animals, despite being only 3 years old. I think it’s her more deliberate and predictable behavior. She was adorable.

The kittens:

Anna celebrated her ninth birthday this year! On Easter Sunday, we had a small birthday celebration with some family. I can’t believe how big she is. I’m very proud of my first big little girl.

Happy ninth birthday, Anna!

Happy ninth birthday, Anna!

So grown up.

So grown up.

They are all in their Easter dresses.

They are all in their Easter dresses.

Roller blades!

Roller blades!

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Excitement

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Over the last few months, we have been reevaluating our family choices and goals. We tried to remember our five and ten year goals that we made early in marriage (we celebrated our eleventh anniversary this spring.). As Mom and Dad moved back home from Uganda, we have, as a family, been discussing what each of our “missions” might be. That seemed impossible to narrow down, but I think we’ve done it.

The primary mission for our family is to care for orphans. We have internal family goals as well, but this is specifically our family’s mission to the world. God placed it in our hearts before our marriage and that passion has not lessened with time. Being Jordan’s Mom, Dad, and sisters is part of that mission. Supporting other adoptive and foster families through friendship, counsel, prayer, babysitting and respite care is part of it. Supporting orphan care organizations financially is part of it. Supporting families that might otherwise fall apart without help is part of it (thinking of impoverished families who can’t afford to care for their children without aid, such as World Vision children). As specific as caring for orphans is as a mission, it has broad possibilities for application. And I’m excited.

I’m excited that we have a mission. A goal. Something to aim at, to strive for. I’m excited to have introduced it to the kids. I love broadening their world and seeing them embrace the new information and grow. I’m so proud of them.

Tonight we went around the table and tried to decide what some things we can do are. Being Jordan’s family came up. Praying came up. And sending money to an orphanage or other orphan-care organization came up. We made a goal of saving up as much as we could by Christmas! We got out a big jar and we all raided our purses and wallets and put our bills and dollars in.

I’m excited.

We’re going to try and think up some fundraisers to help us raise some more money. We’re especially looking for things that we can do together. Our first idea is to take some of the scrapbooking paper we have and write Scripture or inspirational quotes on it in calligraphy. Or I can do calligraphy on regular paper and the kids can decorate it. The idea was to have something inexpensive to mail so that we can sell these things very cheap. We’re putting quarters and dollars into this jar. Please let me know if you also want to contribute and how!

A very good beginning!

A very good beginning!

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