Two Years since Gotcha Day!

Jordan at the hotel after being adopted with excellent self-survival skills:

Jordan Scott Davis,

It’s been 2 years this Thursday since Papa and Grammy showed up at the orphanage and brought you away from there on a journey home. You were so small, so scared and you had no idea what was happening to you. After that long week in the hotel and long flight home, here you were… surrounded by your family and out of a crib. You have always been such a brave boy, but this was hard on you. You quickly discovered the woodstove and liked to lay and rest in its warmth. You laughed when we tickled, but retreated and turned your back to hide from this new big world whenever you could. You could sit and you could crawl a bit. You could pull to stand.

Jordan – home 2 weeks:

My two-year-olds!

My two-year-olds!

Impressing us with your flexibility.

Impressing us with your flexibility.

Such scrawny little loves!

Such scrawny little loves!

Since then, you’ve experienced your and second Christmas, your first birthday parties, first food from spoons, first steps, first climb, you’ve learned to explore and investigate. You’ve gone to swimming lessons and water parks, visited the Oregon coast and a Mountain retreat. You are beloved of your family and your extended family.

Standing without support – Home 2 months:

Home 4 months:

Going for a walk and getting so big!

Going for a walk and getting so big!

One year home, time with Grandpa

One year home, time with Grandpa

Eating – home 6 months:

First steps – home 7 months:

One of his first dances – home 10 months:

Walking and playing – home 12 months:

First chewing bites – home 14 months:

(just found a video of him chewing 2 months after he got home, but he refused all non-pureed foods in his mouth shortly after this video was taken: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_V5gR2SmLjM)

First sign – home 19 months:

Dancing to a band – home 21 months:

Playing with sisters – home 23 months:

Arriving home - December 3, 2011

Arriving home – December 3, 2011

Halloween 2013, watching Mary Poppins

October 2013

Jordan, you are creative and strong and determined and handsome to boot. I love you so very much. Thank you for the last two years. Two years ago Thanksgiving, we were packing for Papa to fly to Bulgaria. This Thanksgiving, we have so much to be thankful for with you in our family.

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Hello from the Northwest!

Dear Mom and Dad,

It’s almost lunch time here and Anna is nearing the end of her schoolwork for the morning. I bought myself a half hour of quiet time from Carolyn with a bowl of Kix that’s hard for her to get her hand into. I gave Jordan one too and he had fun shaking it, stuffing his hand in and banging it. Until just a week ago, he would have given up and not tried. It’s really encouraging to see him trying to do hard things.

The rain has really begun over here. Everything outside is soaked and 80% of the leaves have fallen from the trees. I love the indoor coziness of winter, but I am eagerly anticipating the spring too which seems so far away. We hired our neighbor to mow the blackberries out of our “garden” area. I am so anticipating gardening, but know I won’t be able to do much for awhile. At least the brambles are cut down to manageable size now. We keep trying to look at our property and imagine a successful ditch pattern to help with the constant runoff. Then we have to figure out how to actually get those ditches in the ground. We have neither the muscles or time to dig them… but it’s on the list! 🙂

I’m wondering how much it’s going to cost to keep our house comfortably warm this winter. There is so much house to heat!!! I keep trying to figure out how I could close off a portion of the house so we could primarily heat the living areas during the day, and then let it get cooler at night. But at night neither Jordan or Carolyn stay under blankets yet… though I guess we could get space heaters for their rooms. During the day, the thermostat is in the hallway that leads to upstairs… and the upstairs cannot be separated since we have the big formal entry. Ah well. I puzzle on it now and then, but haven’t figured it out, so keep pushing it aside again.

I’m really looking forward to Christmas this year! The Mellingers will come to our house and stay overnight before Christmas. Then on Christmas day, Brian’s family Christmas is coming to our house this year! Hooray! I’m looking forward to Thanksgiving too, but with a mix of eager anticipation and dread. Jordan will be overwhelmed, Carolyn will be clingy and there will be no Grandma and Grandpa to help. And then the drive home…. ohh… hope that goes ok. Not much in my easy happy life that I dread more than a 3-4 hour drive in the dark with screaming, crying kids. I’m praying they sleep and are peaceful. If that happens, then Brian and I will have a sort of “date” together as we have quiet time to talk. 🙂

Let’s see… what else do you need an update on? We officially joined our church last week! They have a pretty informal church membership, but we were glad to make the formal commitment to our local church body. Next thing we may do is ask for some feedback on dedicating our children at church. We are actively looking for an older Christian couple or two to take us on to advise, encourage, teach and hold us accountable. I don’t know what the Lord has planned to fill that need for us… but we are eager to make more close relationships.

LOL – I had to turn around, because Carolyn was making funny sounds…. she was high-centered under the table. hehehe

Jordan has come down with his first sickness in a long time. He has some kind of cold. He’s not eating well and today developed a barking cough. Hope he gets over it quickly!

We do school five days a week most of the time. Jordan goes to preschool five afternoons a week most of the time. I try to take a rest in the afternoon… it starts as me forcing myself to be still and quiet for 20 minutes. This is me trying to find my clarity of mind in the afternoon. It’s so hard to be still and quiet! BUT – when I do… I usually wake up an hour later. lol I do this right after Jordan goes to school and Carolyn is napping. The girls do crafts or read books and it seems to be really helping! I also have been NOT eating any sweets during the day and I’m sure that has helped too. This Saturday, Brian has Men’s Breakfast and then he is going to rake leaves off the church parking lot. At 1pm, Anna has a birthday party at our neighbor’s house. At 2pm, there’s a baby shower. That’s a little busier than our usual weekend…. but when we’re less busy, Brian gets to work around the property. It gets dark around 4.

Ok, it’s time to make the kids’ lunch. Probably peanut butter and jelly for the kids or homemade macaroni and cheese. Hopefully I have some rice and meatballs left over from dinner the other night for me.

I love you and miss you,

Rachel

Carolyn eating Kix out of a bowl... Jordan chasing down any escapees.

Carolyn eating Kix out of a bowl… Jordan chasing down any escapees.

Eating the fruits of their labors... ginger cookies!

Eating the fruits of their labors… ginger cookies!

Patient, loving, playful man with his youngest children.

Patient, loving, playful man with his youngest children.

This big, carpeted room is such a blessing!  Especially now that constant wet weather has set in.  Even the big girls don't want to play outside much.

This big, carpeted room is such a blessing! Especially now that constant wet weather has set in. Even the big girls don’t want to play outside much.

I realized the other day that I had finally mastered the art of clothes layering.  I am tres chic, yes?

I realized the other day that I had finally mastered the art of clothes layering. I am tres chic, yes?

Anna is learning cursive!  My letter on the left, hers to the right.  She is better at this than printing!

Anna is learning cursive! My letter on the left, hers to the right. She is better at this than prin[caption id="attachment_9267" align="aligncenter" width="500"]High centered- lol! High centered- lol!

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My little whiner.  lol  She is a tender sweetie, truly.  But she also has mastered the art of the whine.

My little whiner. lol She is a tender sweetie, truly. But she also has mastered the art of the whine.

Carolyn signing:

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Woman in Crisis

Click on the link above (“Baby Clothes“) to be introduced to Woman in Crisis and the little things I’d like to collect to send to them (namely, baby clothes!).

Praying for a mother in the maternity ward in Uganda.

Praying for a mother in the maternity ward in Uganda.

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How to Support a Struggling Family

I just wanted to post this here for my own future reference…

These apply to adoptive families, military families, single parent families, families taking care of the elderly, those with chronic illness, those in financially difficult times, new parents, post surgery, the list goes on!

Some lists from https://www.facebook.com/HisHandsHisFeetToday:

Things that most families use like:
toilet paper
rice
peanut butter
pasta
shampoo/soap

Gift cards to:
barber shops
gas stations
grocery stores
pizza places
oil change places

Others:
clothes/hand me downs
socks
mittens/gloves
underwear
diapers
wipes

Some other things that were done for their family:
-A woman made all of our kids their own quilts.
-A woman has sewn all of the kids their own unique pillowcase.
-A chicken (dead/frozen) in our van after church (lol).
-A family bought our kids an Ipad for speech.
-Vegetables from people’s garden surplus.
-A family bought all the kids a tshirt from their home state.
-Tickets to Sea World when we went to FL a few years ago (the husband worked there)
-A woman sent us a beautiful sculpture she created when Josiah died.
-A family out of state ships us toilet paper regularly.
-A woman made all the kids a necklace when Selah died.
-Meat from someone’s deer kill.
-When Josiah died, a woman dropped of juice (it’s a rare treat at our house … she is now known as “the juice lady” to the kids :)).
-A former dealer of Ben’s would give us a Costco gift card whenever we adopted another child.
-A meal or a bag of groceries “just because”
-Hand-me-downs
-A woman knitted all the kids a hat

And then a post with more ideas here:
http://www.onethankfulmom.com/adoption/eight-ways-to-help-a-struggling-family/

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Carolyn

Carolyn is my little adorable messmaker with a sweet, but demanding attitude. LOVE her!

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