Merry Christmas – Family of Five

Merry Christmas from all five Davises!

The year in review:

We started the year with Anna 3 1/2 and Maggie was 15 months. Our homestudy was finished and our I800A was submitted. I had just totaled our van and we got James’ referral! Brian built a chicken tractor and we kicked off the pre-ministry at church on Sanctity of Life Sunday (orphan ministry).

Our paperwork finally started moving again at the end of this month as we took trips to Salem for apostilles. We had our only snow this month!

By March, we were stir-crazy enough to go on walks in the mud and rain and chilly weather! Here we are with friends. This month our world was shaken up as the Lord brought us a second son, Jordan! Brian and I also celebrated our 6th anniversary!

We were definitely ready for summer by April, with the girls playing “swimming” in the living room! Anna turned four years old and I researched triple strollers for my expected “triplets” (James, Jordan, Maggie).

I began physical therapy for my jaw/neck in May and we took a trip to Seattle while Brian worked there. We visited family for birthdays, my dad rafted the Grand Canyon and Grandma H had a kidney transplant.

Spring was here at last and so were the strawberries in June! Our first trip to Bulgaria was scheduled to meet our sons. On June 10th, James passed away and was ours to hold no longer. June 17th, we left our girls in the care of grandparents and flew to meet our precious boy, Jordan.

Despite having a case of Mono (Brian and I), we enjoyed celebrating the 4th of July with family, planted a cherry tree for James, and prepared for our little Jordan.

In August, mono symptoms continued, but we picked gallons and gallons of blueberries anyway and went camping with our church. Canning also began… salsa, pears, appleseauce…

In September we fundraised for Vinnie and rejoiced as a family committed to adopting him! Anna started Cubbies for the first time too.

Maggie turned two in October! We had fun with friends, waited impatiently for Jordan and rejoiced when his adoption was made final! We spent a few days watching my friend Hollie’s kids as she gave birth to her seventh bundle. Long-time pet Pepper also passed away this month. I miss that doggie!

November brought real thanksgiving as well as a family Thanksgiving! Brian and Tamera packed up and headed to Bulgaria on the day after Thanksgiving to bring home our son!

And now it is the month of Christmas! Brian has quite a bit of time off work and we’ve been enjoying a season of rest and adjustment with Jordan home. We praise the Lord for the growth of our hearts over this year and the growth of our family. We have witnessed first hand the miracle of adoption when an orphan becomes a son. We are basking every day in the day to day life of renewal and hope that the Lord has given us… we are witnessing our daughters growth and change, laughter, smiles, new understanding, new skills… we are witnessing our son as his wings slowly unfold and his potential and beauty are slowly seen and realized. We are a very blessed family.

If this is what happens when we take a leap of faith and trust God… then I want to walk in faith all the time!

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Penny Pinching Friday – Paying More

Kind of a strange title for today. Where do you save money by paying more?

Wherever you owe money.

For us, that’s a mortgage. Nothing like over a hundred grand sitting on you to make you want to save money somehow. We put an extra $50 on the mortgage every month. It’s not much! (compared to over a hundred grand?) It’s $600 extra a year.

Here’s where it gets exciting though. A 30 year mortgage of…. say…
$140,000 at 6% interest will cost you $162,174 in interest, not to mention paying off the 140K you started with! The banks KNOW how to make money. If you were to pay off this mortgage with just $50 more per month, you’d be saving $26,349 in interest!!! (Thank’s, Karl’s Mortgage Calculator!)

If you’re paying more than 6% interest…. say on a credit card… it’s even more pronounced. Working on paying off debt? We have been really encouraged and motivated by Dave Ramsey and The Total Money Makeover. Check out his 7 baby steps to financial freedom. Takes commitment! We don’t always do what Dave says, but we take his advice seriously when making decisions.

What do you do to keep more of your money?

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What Jordan will Learn

An incomplete list of things Jordan is going to learn. 🙂

Jordan is standing on the chair next to me bouncing. He is a happy little fella in the morning. I’m happy to have another morning person in the family! We continue to make gentle progress with Jordan. He definitely is getting more and more at home here with us.

I’m going to list the things we’re working on with him:
Games he’s learned since being adopted: making ba-ba-ba noise while somebody pats his mouth. And he anticipates tickles… which is so much fun!
Reciprocal play and communication: that is, we keep mimicking him to encourage him to mimic us, to teach him that we can be communicated with and that it’s fun!
Patty cake: Along with mimicking him, we’re teaching him to clap. Sometimes we slap our legs or the floor instead. He’s not copying us yet, but all this play makes him smile!
Finger feeding himself: Not sure how to teach this, but if smearing sweet stuff on his fingers isn’t a good place to start, then I don’t know what is.
Spoon-feeding himself: He actually seems to want to try spoon feeding himself a little where finger-feeding isn’t even on his radar of things he ought to try.
Playing with toys: He has games he already knows and loves that involve rattles. Bang them on your face, your chin, your ear, the floor… but other games and other toys are all new territory to him.
Following people around: Seems like a good idea, right?
Getting into stuff: I thought this came naturally… but we’ll give him time.
Moving into new rooms: He moves around the house a little, but isn’t really exploring yet. He hasn’t tried to go many places. Funny that I”m looking forward to him getting into things!

I’ll add more pictures if I can find the camera cable…

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Christmas… and Valenz

Blogs to date:
Human
Who is Valenz?
Valenz’s Need
The Angel Tree
Christmas Tree Ornaments
Valenz and other Angels

It’s probably not too late to get an ornament. Just barely! Donations to Valenz of $35 or more qualifies you for an ornament! Get one. Read his profile. Follow his story throughout the next year. My prayer is that he will be home before next Christmas! Nothing is impossible with God.

Please remember those less fortunate this Christmas. I pray you will be with family this year. And that you will not be in want… of food, of warmth, of love. This year, I have two ornaments on my tree of children without families, without permanent homes, without the present love of a mother or father. One is Valenz. One is Vinnie and one is Valenz.

Valenz

Vinnie in June 2011

Vinnie has a Mama and sisters and brothers and even a nephew waiting at home for him! They have continuing fundraising needs as they pursue the paperwork piece by piece to get him home. Please continue to follow his family’s journey to him and support them as you can. The family blog is here and the adoption blog is here.

Valenz does not have a Mama yet. I have heard that there is a family seriously considering him (you know who you are!!!!), but until they are ready to move the paperwork forward his file needs to remain available. Because it is. He is waiting. Please pray that everything will come together and a family can go for Valenz! He needs a Mama to love him. He needs a Papa to be proud of him. He needs a family who will wait with him and help him through the healing and development in a new home… a REAL home.

This Christmas, remember Vinnie and Valenz to your families. Visualize the rooms they are in. Visualize the looks on their faces. Think of the attitudes of the caregivers around them. (Even if gentle and kind, they are not the orphans mamas. My cousin cares for orphans and she LONGS for families to come forward and permanently adopt “her” babies!) Realize that neither Vinnie or Valenz possess anything that they can call their own. Not even their clothes. Maybe they will have a special treat on Christmas, but maybe not. Consider giving the impermanent money you have left for the season to help one of the waiting children home.

Sponsor Vinnie’s family. Sponsor Valenz. Sponsor another waiting family or child. Support a humanitarian aid organization.

And rejoice! Because… because the LORD has come! Do not let your hearts be cast down. For unto us as Savior has been born. And his name is Jesus. Emmanuel. God with us. He has not forgotten the afflicted. He never has. I have cast my cares on Him, I place my hope in Him, and it is His redemption that I cling to.

Merry Christmas!

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Jordan – 2 Weeks Home

I don’t have time to type a whole blog out right now…. the kids are up and hungry. But you really want pictures, right? Tidbits: We all slept great again last night. We moved Brian’s office to our bedroom. We bought an ikea wall shelf for over our couch in the living room. And the grand finale…. later today we will be the owners of a full size (portable) dishwasher! It will go next to our stove and I have no idea where my trash can will go now! 😀 And I’m crocheting a scarf. And the fool person who made the pattern decided scarves should be made out of row after row of slip stitches, which are about the least efficient (slowest) stitch around! Why did I choose this pattern? Well, at least it looks nice. Will keep his pinky warm so far.

What it looks like to hang out:

What it looks like when we’re eating:

What it looks like when we’re laughing:

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