Homecoming… Home.

First – what you really want – the first camera’s pictures! (One more camera was taking shots/video, so hope to share that with you soon!)

Reunited. My husband again at my side and my child handed into my arms. A moment of deep joy.

Such love given from mother-in-love to me... I have been deeply blessed by you, Tamera. Thank you for loving my husband and son as you do. I love you!

Sleeping... in my arms. Welcome home little guy.

Family. Love. Together. Home. Red tape.... Behind us!!!!

The welcoming party! Heather & Michael, Rebecca and Mark, my parents, me and the travelers! The flight was in early so Jeff and Jennifer weren't there yet!

Last night my dear friend Hollie came by to couch-sit while my girls slept. Anna was excited, but willing to go to bed… she has had a fever, so she was tired. Maggie fell asleep very quickly, since she had skipped her nap. The last two hours before being able to get in the car to drive to the airport dragged. Really dragged. After the girls were in bed at last, I sat at the window like a little kid… hat and scarf on, purse over my shoulder, waiting for the babysitter to get here!

The drive to the airport seemed long and short. I met up with Rebecca and Mark who were there first. They are on their way to adopt two little ones from a different Eastern Europe country and have large fundraising needs… keep them in mind! We chatted and soon my parents were there and then, surprise, Heather and Michael! It was good to have you all there… to feel the community around me of those who care about us and Jordan with a love that only Christ can give. Mom and Dad… I am so glad you were there! I so wanted to have you there and you were!

I had just run to the big screen to see what time they were supposed to land… and it said they had landed several minutes before! I ran back to the waiting area JUST in time to meet Brian, Tamera and Jordan walking out! All that waiting and then, bam! They were here! At last! And already! And I couldn’t do anything but hug Brian and cry. Jordan was passed to my arms, fast asleep for the entire 6 hour flight from DC. More tears were shed between me and Tami and there was everything right about how Jordan felt in my arms. He smells like old spit, his diaper was wet, his hands and face chapped… but there wasn’t a handsomer child in that whole airport.

He slept all the way home… where another surprise awaited us! Will have pictures for you soon, but Hollie and Amy had conspired and our kitchen and living room are bedecked with streamers and balloons! My emotions feel like an old rag right now… just used up and saggy. But there is nothing small about my gratefulness to God and the deep, deep, full joy I have that we are all home. All of us. Under one roof. Together. Permanently.

How did the flights go? Amazing. Very little whining, good eating, almost not enough diapers. The seats which were not together were moved and they sat ALL together the Entire time… without having to ask for anybody to move for them! It couldn’t have been better!

How did last night go? Good! Anna woke up once crying… doesn’t remember it, but I climbed all the way into her bunk bed and held her for awhile. Later she woke up excited to ask me if it was Christmas! Guess she remembered it was an important night, but not which one. 😀 I was excited for her to see the streamers this morning! Maggie woke up a couple times fussing. Jordan slept until 3am. At 3am, he sometimes sat, sometimes was on all fours and he rocked, rubbing his head on the side of the pack n play. Brian moved to the futon to sleep better and I slept when Jordan slept. Fixing his blanket every once in awhile. He was doing really well, considering he had fallen asleep 12 hours earlier (at 3pm!). But, it was still hard to hear him rocking.

At 6am, I picked him up and he lay against me in the recliner, seeming too scared to move. Slowly, he moved more and we opened the curtains to stare outside. He decided it had been long enough since he’d eaten at 6:45 so our day began! Everybody’s feeling pretty good. Jordan had eggs and yogurt pureed for breakfast. He had chicken rice casserole for lunch. We found one of our straw cups he can use and he had juice after lunch too. More pictures, more details to come! We’re taking one little day at a time. Feeling the blessing of being together and praising God for his provision.

It was a huge effort to get little Jordan home. And it was a bargain. We are patiently looking forward to the next months and years as we discover our son and as he discovers his family and his world. We’re going to keep it low key for awhile, so we won’t have visitors yet. I will keep posting pictures here!

Jordan is rocking in his crib right now and Maggie is singing in bed instead of sleeping. Suppose I ought to try and tuck them in? Anna and Brian are out picking out a Christmas tree. Brian has very little work for the month of December… I can’t think of a better way to welcome Jordan home.

Our cup is overflowing. Thank you all.

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On US Soil!

Sorry for the blogging lapse here at the final countdown! If you haven’t understood – something nearly impossible happened and appointments were able to be made early and they are on their way home FOUR DAYS EARLY! Thank you Lord! When I heard, I was in denial or shock or bewilderment…. I was surprised and the thought of my husband who I’ve missed so terribly would be home in just two days had me in emotional shambles. I needed to go close myself in a room and cry and let the emotions sink through and settle. But I have two little kids who were also excited and kept asking questions…. oh… it was a rough, cry and laugh morning!

But now. NOW! They are on US soil! They’re working their way through passport and customs now and I’m praying they make their flight!

Anna is very excited to meet her new brother. She can’t wait to show him his toys and teach him things and talk with him. I keep reminding her she’ll need to give him some space… he’s not used to sisters or so many toys or people who speak english. He has lots to learn… and she is on board! I am blessed by seeing her genuine care and love for her brother who she has never met. She is so excited and proud to have a brother to take care of who needed a family… so we got him one!

Goodbye friends!

Goodbye Sofia streets, taxis, and important immigrant appointments.

Goodbye hotel Budapest! With your good food and kind, helpful service, you'll be missed.

Goodbye amazing architecture. It's going to be a good 1500 years before our architecture is as old as yours!

Goodbye chart until Papa gets home...

Hellooooooooo, sisters!

I’ll be picking them up at 8:52 pm at PDX if anybody wants to come! Can’t wait to have my boys in my arms and give a big hug to Tamera who has blessed us beyond words. I’m looking forward to sharing photos of the homecoming with you…. but I really have no idea how tonight will go (sleep?)!

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Sharing Saturday – Passed over Babes… Ryan

I’m going to quote a little bit from two blog posts… first from http://www.covenantbuilders.blogspot.com/2011/11/passed-over-babes.html. (and you want to go there and read it all)

On Saturday I opened up the Angel Tree and began to scroll through the faces.

Many of them new faces… first time Angel Tree children.

But many were way too familiar. And it saddened me. Faces of children who have sat for two or more years on the tree.

Children who will AGAIN be hanging ON a tree this year instead of sitting UNDER it. Children who have spent one more year of their lives isolated and alone. Most of them passed over because of bad pictures or because of sad expressions on their faces. How to get them noticed? How to get them from being passed over another year??

There is a big movement going on right now to find families for some of these forgotten children. Don’t miss out! Be a part of God’s work. Because if redeeming orphans isn’t God’s work, then I don’t know what is.

And before I’m done for today – I want to share one more blog with you. http://justonemore4us.blogspot.com/2011/11/where-is-my-momma-monday-post-5.html

Out of all the kids I left behind, why do I all of a sudden find myself dreaming of “Ryan” safe and at home in my arms? All I can figure is that it’s the urgency of his situation. Deep down in my heart I know that he is running out of time and it terrifies me. …

I know that there are families considering “Ryan”. I also know that, as is true with most families, the finances are the biggest and most overwhelming obstacle. Let’s help make that obstacle a little smaller, shall we? Let’s show any family considering stepping out in faith to bring this precious little angel boy home that they are not alone but that there is an army of people ready to fight with them.

I have some children in my arms. And I have some children on my heart. If the Lord has something for you to do… it’s time to step out and do it.

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24 hours!

More information and captions coming soon. Server still painfully slow. Praying for my tired traveling team… and grateful I get to go to bed… and overwhelmed with JOY that my family will be reunited soon! Thank you Lord!

They’re on their way home. Immigration paperwork and VISA all in hand. Last shopping trip done. Last sleep in a bed behind them until tomorrow night. Here are some pictures until they’re here!

Two women insisting that Jordan needed more booties or gloves and that he was too cold!

Delicious fruit

An important first. Jordan relaxed against Brian... completely... and stayed near sleep for the walk. He is learning what it is to have a Papa!

Another picture of the lady who gave them lectures about not having warm enough clothes!

I tear up every time I see Jordan and Brian together. I have so longed to see my boys together!

Tamera: My last breakfast in Bulgaria. I will miss the mushrooms, tomatoes, the small crescents and the peach jam. Yum! But I can't wait though for a glass of cold nonfat milk!

Donny's corner seat in the restaurant downstairs. The glazed over fear of an orphan removed from his home is slowly being replaced with love... I can see it!

Tamera: Donny (Jordan) on the way to breakfast. I wish that I could put into words the difference in this beautiful boy from Monday. He loves to giggle and cuddle and is such a joy!

There is just something so beautiful about a father and his son. I love you!!!!

Hungarian pancakes and Shopska salad.

This is our amazed face.

This is our silly face.

Awww - helpless giggles from a grammy with love just for him!

Jording standing tall and strong... and giggling!

I love this sign! What a sense of humor these Bulgarians have.

Breakfast with Shelley and Mandy!

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Jordan Watch – Thursday

From Brian:

We woke up late and went to breakfast. Jordan had yogurt and eggs blended up in his coke bottle. Meredith and Shelly were at breakfast too so we sat and talked and decided to run out to go shopping together. We all piled into a taxi and went down to the cathedrals in the center of town. There we took pictures and shopped from the tables of little old ladies who knit and embroider all kinds of things. Jordan was fussed some of this time in the Ergo on my back and got carried by me and mom and eventually cuddled with Meredith before we loaded up into another taxi back to the hotel. Then we ordered lunch in and tried to feed Jordan but he was so tired he didn’t eat much. We let him lay on the floor in the sun and watch his shadows. He fell asleep and so did I until 1:30 (about an hour) and we had to go get in the car with Dmitri and go to Jordan’s medical appointment. When we got there they made us wait a bit. Then told us we needed his immunization records which I had forgot about and left at the hotel. Dmitri and I raced back to the hotel while mom stayed with Chevdar and Jordan and they his examination. Not a very thorough one but when we got back to the hospital 40 minutes later they were ready for my signature and we were done. We raced to the embassy to try to get there before 4pm when they close. Got in at 3:30, met the consulate at 3:54 and walked out at 3:59. They told us the visa will be ready tomorrow at 3pm so that means we are done!

(At this point, enter with screaming and crying and dancing and laughing… all in joy, of course. From me. Rachel. I don’t think Brian screamed, but he did seem pretty darn happy!)

A quick skype with Rachel back the hotel and she is on the phone to change our tickets. We went down to dinner with Meredith, Shelley and another family that I’m sorry I can’t remember your names! Dinner was very nice chatting with everyone. Jordan was getting tired and I eventually laid him on the floor and he just laid down. So we went back upstairs and played with him and bathed and went to bed.

Pray for us on the way home, we don’t have seats together on all the flights. So pray that we are able to switch with folks, pray that the flight is safe, that Jordan does well and many thanks to God that things have gone sooo well today. He was held almost all day and did really well. He also handled the car much better. Both were major breakthroughs for him and us. He ate, he drank, he pooped, he slept, all the things a parent worries about he did fine today. I am elated I get to be home with my girls soon and that I am bringing my son home. I can’t wait to get him into our family routine I think he will do so well.

You don’t want to miss this video! Self-initiated play! Standing and balancing! Laughter! I love you Jordan! (and his clothes are too big – that’s why his pants were having issues)

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